Friday, July 30, 2010





Facebook Friday


I must confess when it comes to the newspaper, I'm a skimmer. I flip through those pages in record time as I scan for important words, get the gist of each article and then move on. If a chunk is too long I move onto the next paragraph. All I want is the details and if the story grabs me, I might re-read it properly to make sure I didn't miss anything.

You might be like me too. Information comes to us in little bites all day long and we've become used to receiving it in all sorts of media. FB is is a great example. If a status is too long, I'm tempted to skip it and read the next one down. I can't help it when there are so many delicious things to discover about the people in my world.

I would even go so far as to guess you have already peeked at the winner of the FB status before finishing this very paragraph. Admit it, you did - didn't you? No? Ok, keep reading then.

When I recently saw a status with one word and one punctuation mark, it grabbed my full attention. Not a difficult challenge you might say, given I skim read. True, but there was something about this freshly added status which made me shiver with excitement. It was only 20 minutes old and already people had commented with happy faces.

The writer was my cousin's husband in Greece. Niko and his beautiful Niki have been married for 15 years and their desire for most of this time has been to start a family. When I read Niko's status I knew some serious praying had not gone unheard.

Niko - 2!

Thats right. A number and exclamation mark. It stuck out like a mistake at first, among the lengthier updates of my FB friends. A quick telephone call confirmed the joyous news that not one but two babies are on the way for this excited couple and following Greek customs, this will make me an aunty again, twice over!

A few days later Niko, shared another glimpse of their amazing discovery after a visit to the hospital

Niko - Two tiny hearts... 

For these two wonderful FB status posts, Niko is my Facebook Friday winner of the week.

What a blessing to be able to share life changing news so instantly. I can't wait to log onto Facebook in the months to come and see pink/blue or pink/pink, or blue/blue. What a wonderful way to discover the answer to my prayers, or should I say the answers.  Yes folks, this little FB status took my breath away.

14 comments:

Nikos.Lioliopoulos said...

Being without children for so many years, a shade of sadness hanging heavy upon our lives.
Now this blessing gift changed everything.
I can1t see the time to be a father

Having a good and patient wife was the best think in my life so far.

In seven moths i pray to be the most happy man in the world !

I am feeling happy but with a little anxiety too.

To have a cousin and friend like you Dorothy is priceless.

We love you all.

A great hang from us.

P.s i know that my English are ow full, but i couldn find better words to express my feelings reading your post!

Dorothy Adamek said...

Niko, if only my Greek was as good as your English!
You did a great job :)
Blessings to you and Niki... looking forward to hearing more news from you soon. Love to you both.

Nonna Beach said...

I'm a skimmer also. I digest groups of words as I read, not just one word at a time, so it is easy for me to skim and retain most of what I have skimmed. I am the same with fb...if the status is too long,I tend to ignore it, but if it's just one word, it can drive me equally crazy !

Lee said...

Congratulations to Niko and his wife...such wonderful news! Praying God will continue to bless you both ;) And also congrats to my wonderful friend Dotti, auntie extraordinaire!

Crystal Mary said...

What a blessing, not one but two...
You didn't say whether identical or not? Beautiful news and Congratulations from this Blogger.

Dorothy Adamek said...

Hi Nonna Beach,
At least we get through lots of good reading material:)
Blessings
Dorothy

Dorothy Adamek said...

Hi Lee,
Pretty exciting about the twins isn't it? I have two gorgeous nephews and beautiful niece in Greece so far. I am looking forward to seeing them all again someday... I hope it won't be too far away :)
Blessings
Dorothy :)

Dorothy Adamek said...

Hi Crystal Mary,
It's still early days to know much more. I'm sure there will be another FB status to share that news too :)
Blessings
Dorothy

Rosslyn Elliott said...

This made me smile too. I'm happy for them! And I love your FB Friday idea.

Dorothy Adamek said...

Hi Rosslyn,
Thanks for visiting! You always make my day when you do :)
Blessings
Dorothy :)

Linda said...

Such a blessing-not one but two!! How wownderful!Children are a sweet blessing and enrich our lives!
Hugs

Karen Lange said...

Congrats to your family! What exciting news! It is fun to be an aunt; I just returned from a visit to see my new niece.

I am like you, a skimmer. When I need to, I go back and read more fully. It just depends on the info and what I need it for.

Blessings my friend!
Stay warm:)
Karen

Dorothy Adamek said...

Hi Linda,
It is a blessing indeed :) Such fun to anticipate more little ones to love!!
Blessings
Dorothy :)

Dorothy Adamek said...

Hi Karen,
I've been thinking of you on your visit with family. Congratulations on the birth of your niece too! I'm sure you miss her already :)
Blessings
Dorothy