You Knit Me Together
Some years, the weeks leading up to Christmas fill with more than what we pencil into our diaries. With two children graduating and one celebrating her 18th birthday, we thought the windup to the school year would keep us on our toes, but God allowed us to cram a hospital stay into the busyness of December.
Tom, our sports mad son, found himself nursing a torn ACL (Anterior Cruciate Ligament) and earlier this month underwent a knee reconstruction. Thankfully, it's mending well although a complete recovery is many months away. Tom will plough through hours of physiotherapy and when he finally returns to his beloved basketball, will need to re-fashion his game to compensate for his injury.
For a 16 year old, the summer of recovery stretches before him, echoing with lost opportunities and unfulfilled potential. Yet, in among what masquerades as wasted days, there is a plan God ordained long before our son's bones and ligaments were properly formed. Even while he grew and took shape in the womb, God saw him and knew him. He knit the ligament together in the first place and we trust He will now repair it.
We also trust in God's plan for Tom. While no one's thrilled the boy's limping around, we are keen to see how God will use this time of rest to shape Tom further, and equip him for the days ahead. To return to the level of sport Tom has been playing will require as much self-discipline as the sport itself. He will need to stick to the therapy schedule and exercises drawn up for him. He will make friends with the exercise bike and pool, as he retrains the muscles around his knee to work and rebuild strength.
Our prayer is for this time to yield spiritual fruit as well - life lessons, which Tom will remember as he enters senior high school with all its challenges. Thankfully, we have God's Word to encourage us with all of life's steps, whether they require our ligaments and joints, or the faithful steps of our heart.
Be well Tom, my love. Look to God for your strength, and follow Him where He leads you.
No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.
Therefore, strengthen your feeble arms and weak knees. Make level paths for your feet.
Hebrews 12: 11-13

14 comments:
You certainly have had a busy month of December. May Tom heals totally in Jesus' name and faster than expected.
Have a beautiful Christmas in the sunshine. Jesus did! We are the odd ones. With love. xxx
Hello dear Raymonde. Thank you for your good wishes for Tom.
I wouldn't mind being an odd one out in the winter one day and enjoy your beautiful snow drifts.
Blessings
Dotti :)
It's refreshing to see someone step back and watch how God will work things out in a diverse situation. With theropy and God's help lets pray for a full recovery for your son Tom.
Praying for a speedy and fruitful recovery. Blessings to you and your family!
Karen :)
Hi Dorothy -
Sorry to hear about your son's knee problems. Praying for a swift recovery.
Blessings,
Susan :)
I'm glad Tom came through surgery well and that he's on the road to recovery. Merry Christmas to you and your family!
It's difficult to be the mom (or "mum") at times like this--I know (from a little experience). Your words are wise, and I will pray with you to that end: spiritual growth, as well as physical healing. We can't jump in and take our children's place (either in suffering the pain, or in responding to God's trials and tests), though we might like to at times, but God does have a plan, as you say, and has from the beginning, and is working it out now in your Tom's life. Praise God that He loves us enough to not give us entirely smoothe sailing. Praying for Tom and you.
Thanks for the lovely message, Dotti, over on my blog. So good to hear from you! I am very grateful for new friends, like you, who I've met online through blogging.
Have a very Merry Christmas!
Wendy
It always amazes me that when you are doing things for God you always find the time to fit everything in. I am sure with your faith that your son will recover 100% and I trust that he will learn something from this experience that he will carry with him always, love your blog, love from a sister in Christ
Thanks for your encouragement Stan. It's great to know Tom continues to be covered in prayers.
Blessings
Dorothy :)
Thanks for your good wishes Karen. Blessings to you and your loved ones this Christmas season. :)
Thanks for your kind words Susan :) Christmas blessings and best wishes for the New Year.
Love
Dorothy :)
Christmas blessings to you too Rosslyn. I'm so looking forward to what the New Year will bring f'or you!!
Love Dorothy :)
Wendy, your words were such an encouragement to me! Thank you so much!! Christmas blessings to you and your loved ones.
Blessings
Dorothy :)
Thanks for your kind words Karen. We're so blessed to have people from all over the world keeping us in their thoughts and prayers.
Blessings
Dorothy :)
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